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# Communicating with Andrei Jiroh
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This page contains documentation on how to communicate with people in the neurodiversity and the wider disability communities in mind and also on gender neutral communication.
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Suggestions and feedback to improve this content are welcome and encouraged.
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Note that these docs might be not applicable to your case if you’re considering writing your own
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personal user manual and I don’t speak for anyone else.
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## TL;DR
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> Some of them were copied from <https://t.me/ajhalili2006_bio/4> in part for when sliding into DMs.
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1. [Don’t be a dick](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-author-speaks/201909/don-t-be-dick) (aka violent, discriminatory, disrespectful or even disturbing in any way).[^1]
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2. Respect my preferred pronouns and avoid PFL (person-first language) in most cases.
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3. Don’t ping me during downtime, sleep and day-offs. In case of emergencies, call me over my personal phone number that I provided or through provided contact methods.
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For sensitive manners (like reporting security related issues), use Keybase, Session or Matrix (make sure to enable EE2E when initiating an one-to-one chat with me). If you want to connect through Session, I’ll provide my public ID when needed.
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4. No crypto nonsense (even I use mirror.xyz and some other dapps), NSFW or CSAM, self promo hellscape, doxxing, death/swatting threats or calls to violence towards me or anybody.
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5. Future employers and recruiters: Please contact via email or LinkedIn only.
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6. I only respond over Facebook Messenger on my main profile if:
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* you know me IRL, including within the immediate family;
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* or, you are either my class adviser/subject teacher/boss or workspace/academic/school colleague, either in the past or current.
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[^1]: Explainer from admins and mods at `hachyderm.io`: <https://community.hachyderm.io/docs/rule-explainer/#dont-be-a-dick>
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## Pronouns and Language
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My pronouns is `he/they` (technically `he/him/they/them` for long version), although `they/them` is much preferred even if I chose to be identified to my gender at birth.
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In terms of discussing about things relating to neurodiversity and disability, I prefer identity first, especially when discussing about my disability and things like neurodiversity,
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since I mostly frame ableism and other issues related to these under both social and human rights models of disability.
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You might check the [note on disabled and disability](https://www.thesaurus.com/e/writing/person-first-vs-identity-first-language/#note-on-disabled-and-disability) at thesaurus.com,
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especially when discussing accessibility across the community. I don’t usually gatekeep language relating to disability, although I might do when discrimination and bullying happens or when clarification is needed.
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## Availability
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When considering doing a synchronous meeting (or even doing a personal call with me),
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consider both my schedule, workload and the timezone (currently in Philippine Standard Time/`UTC+8`).
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In most days, I’ll be unavailable for contact from 21:00 to 09:30 the next day, although [this could change](#office-hours).
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I’m also unavailable on weekends and official holidays (both local within the city of Marilao and the
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province of Bulacan and national), so expect additional delays on replies if it’s a long weekend.
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## Communicating at work
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Generally, I’m not a fan of sync meetings, especially if iot is scheduled outside of my office hours in PH Standard Time.
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### Office Hours
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!!! warning "Currently left TBD due to school"
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| Day | Regular Hours in PHT | Holidays / Rest Days [^1] |
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| Weekdays | TBD | TBD |
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| Weekends | TBD | TBD |
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### Recap Time Squad specifics
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* Work-related stuff should be discussed in Recap Time Squad’s chatrooms (either public or staff-only, although anything confidential/internal should be stay in staff-only chat).
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* Ping me when only needed. Also, DO NOT ping @everyone.
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* I don't usually read email, but if you sent me some important emails
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(via my `@crew.recaptime.eu.org` or personal addresses),
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please proactively reach me out via other contact methods.
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## Additional resources
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TBD
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[^1]: My regular rest days usually happen on Saturdays, although they might be adjusted because of holidays and other reasons.
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